Short post today, because this one should be self explanatory. An Alpha male is not a jerk. Act like a jerk and you'll be treated badly. Behind your back, people will say bad things, your reputation will be shattered. The reason why we are putting this simple lesson forward is because many people tend to think that Alpha males are dominant, so they can pretty much boss people around and act as they please.
Wrong. Alpha men need not be dominant by giving people orders or bossing people around with rude manners. Alpha men lead the way, with all that is good about leadership. They inspire people, people will not only be willing to follow them, they will also look for Alpha men to lead them to greater things.
We will be talking about leadership in a post soon. I know this post is a bit shallow, but I wanted to establish the difference very clearly before we go deeper.